A comment on my piece about not needing game in marriage:
You don’t need game in marriage, but you do.
What I mean by that is that game as a sort of scheming tactic will not work over the long haul.
Growing up in to a man means internalizing game. You don’t pretend that you have options; you know you do. You don’t intellectually detect shit tests and apply some formula; you actually ARE in a place of amused mastery.
So no, you don’t need game in marriage; you need to be a grown-up man, aka an alpha male. ( You don’t have to be the AMOG; you just need to have the general characteristics of an alpha male, for real. )
Yep. Making a man of yourself is the whole point of this website.
As for the bolded part, I wrote this in my article:
People talk about the importance of game in marriage. Game is not important at all in marriage. But game is crucial before marriage.
Either you get it or you don’t.