Eric left a long comment yesterday which deserves its own thread as he brings up some important questions for our convoluted times.
In regards to the PUA stuff, I’m interested if your beliefs have changed about relationships and marriage since the recent personal events in your life. (By the way, I bought your first book. It was interesting and engaging).
Leave a review, ya mongrel.
My personal beliefs and opinions are in constant flux as I receive new information, gather experiences both good and bad, and generally mature. The biggest takeaway that I am able to presently offer on my own divorce is that you absolutely must hold steadfast in your frame at all times, no matter how difficult that may be in the short term. In addition to that you must not make your wife the center of your life. She has to be on the outer ring and she must know it, (which will make her happy, content, and secure). Your life is your mission.